Do you sabotage your own romantic life?

 You may want to date, but nothing you try appears to work out that way, despite your best efforts. If something like this keeps happening and there is no obvious cause, you might want to think about how much damage you are doing on your own. This could be accomplished in a number of ways without your knowledge.

One, you always choose the incorrect guy. It's possible that Bad Boy Syndrome prevents you from ever selecting the ideal partner for you. Do all the males you date treat you like they scraped you off the bottom of their shoe, yet you still stay? It's possible that you give every man you date complete control in a relationship, which means he controls how things develop. Maybe you focus on men who aren't emotionally available or who are just unwilling to commit. These men may be thrilling, surprising, and wonderful in bed, but they won't remain with you, and you are aware of this from the beginning.

Yet another method that you are impeding your ability to find true love

By remaining in terrible relationships for an extended period of time, you're also creating barriers in the way of finding true love. These are the situations where you KNOW you should go because you aren't receiving what is due to you. The sad thing is that you make up every possible justification for continuing the relationship. You assure yourself that things will change or get better. Being unhappy is not justified by love. Yes, love is definitely vital, but there are other factors that must be present for a relationship to succeed. Respect, compatibility, honor, and communication are a few examples, but there are others. All of the other factors will be present in a relationship if there is genuine love.

When you make choices out of fear, one of the biggest ways to ruin your relationships is to do so. You perform an action out of a sense of obligation rather than because you want to. You worry that following your intuition may prevent you from having the love and life you genuinely desire. You realize that by dealing with the issues that annoy or make you uncomfortable, you may be forced to make some difficult choices. So instead of speaking up, you clam up. You postpone asking the crucial questions because you're unsure of your desire for the truth to be revealed.That is why you choose to ignore all of the cautionary indications in your immediate environment.

The most discouraging aspect of your worry is that you are the one who is unwilling to commit to a relationship. Given that you're committing to one man for the rest of your life, commitment can be a little frightening. Anyone would be alarmed by that. The important thing to keep in mind is that you'll be more willing to set aside your anxiety and open yourself to commitment once you discover the man who provides you all you desire in a partner.